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Read profiles, save yourself a heartbreak

Iridescent Pearly:
Thought I had a great kindling of a relationship with another lovely individual or so I thought. I then sent of video of me speaking. Surprise IM TRANS. or it shouldn’t be considering it says I’m a trans woman on my profile. No response for 3 hours turns out I was BLOCKED. God Add another too good to be true heartache. I hate being trans it’s a curse.

People can just be the worst sometimes, and they can be especially weird when it comes to the trans community. You'll find someone meant for you eventually, not just someone who cares for the superficial parts of you, but the entire you. Don't let this one person drag down your entire self esteem
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Read profiles, save yourself a heartbreak

Iridescent Pearly:
Thought I had a great kindling of a relationship with another lovely individual or so I thought. I then sent of video of me speaking. Surprise IM TRANS. or it shouldn’t be considering it says I’m a trans woman on my profile. No response for 3 hours turns out I was BLOCKED. God Add another too good to be true heartache. I hate being trans it’s a curse.


Not trans, but I feel your pain. Back during my single pringle days, I'd chat it up with a bunch of dudes who seemed decent. If the conversation went well, I'd say, "Just so you know, I'm black. That's not a problem, is it?"

You'd be shocked at how often that was a problem.

And on top of that, I put my race in my profile. They didn't read it.

But remember, the problem is them - not your transness.
2 weeks